Saturday, April 27, 2013

The Call

Just last weekend, I prepared a tiny note to report that we were number 10 in the queue waiting for a match.  It was cute and zippy…something like “T minus 10.  Can I get a countdown?!”  And then something happened.  Life, I guess.  And my people didn’t get it posted promptly. 

But now, we’ll skip that and move on because…we got “the call”!!

Our kids were playing with some friends down the street so that I could get a little work done on a sewing project I agreed to do for my neighbor.  No sooner had I started in on the project than our phone started ringing.  Like every 4 minutes.  I don’t even remember all the calls…random things: something I ordered was ready to be picked up at the store, telemarketer, charitable organization.  I was totally annoyed because I had to keep coming upstairs to check the phone (I was just sure that it was the neighbor saying that someone had fallen in the mud or had a potty accident and a new set of clothes was required).  So, on about the fifth trip up the stairs, I was intrigued to see the name of our adoption agency on the caller ID screen.  They don’t usually call.  Our communication is done primarily via email.  So, I picked up.

When she said that she had our referral, I couldn’t have been more surprised.  I actually argued with her a little.  “But I thought we were like number 10 in the queue,” I said.  “Aren’t any of those families in front of us waiting for this little one?”  She assured me that this one was ours and then asked if she should conference Ryan in to the call so she could share the news with both of us (the miracles of technology, what will they think of next??).  So, after her failed attempt to reach Ryan by phone, and my more-incessant and adamant attempt to reach Ryan by phone, and 7 minutes of anxious waiting (on my part) as Ryan managed to ease his way out of a meeting, we were all on the line and ready for the news.
“She’s about 5 ½ months-old,” said our coordinator.  “She’s been in the orphanage since she was just a few weeks old.  She’s beautiful.  She’s in a region about 4 hours south of Addis.”  We were busy taking in all the details.  Simultaneously giddy and wrecked with finally coming to know our girl.  We spent the next several minutes of the call talking over details, logistics, and next steps.  When we were finished, the adoption coordinator said she would email the information, along with a couple photos.

The email arrived, and she IS beautiful.  She looks healthy and bright-eyed.  We are not at liberty to post her photos or share them digitally.  But, we’ll have some hard copies made.  And if you are someone who lives nearby and crosses paths with us, we promise to be in possession of a photo the next time we run into you.
Back to real-time.  I wanted to call people.  I wanted to show her off.  It was raining a little, but I dashed, barefoot, over to a neighbor’s house to share our news.  After I made a few calls, I walked down to pick up the kids and tell them the big news.  They were really excited and took time to study the photo carefully and ask one-hundred questions.

We celebrated last night with dinner at our local Ethiopian restaurant.  It was the first time our kids had eaten Ethiopian food.  That will require its own post. 
For now know that we’re celebrating God’s faithfulness. 

Next Steps

Once we receive the official paperwork (this coming week) and return it to our adoption agency, the agency will inform the staff in Ethiopia that we’ve accepted this little one, and a court date for the birth family will be scheduled.  Our coordinator seems to believe that the courts are scheduling hearings for early June at this time.  Then, the court date for us can be scheduled about 4 weeks later.  So, we would hope to make our first trip in early to mid July. 

We really hope to get this court trip in before the Ethiopian courts close for the “rainy season,” which usually happens around the end of July through September.  It would be a little maddening to sit here doing nothing for two months waiting out the rain.  So, if you’re inclined to pray for prompt scheduling, we would be grateful.
After our court trip, we’ll come home (sans baby) and wait for another 4 to 6 weeks for things to be wrapped up in Ethiopia.  Then we’ll go back to Ethiopia for an appointment with the Embassy there (which mercifully does not close for rainy season), and we’ll bring our girl home at that time. 

Best case scenario, I think this would be early September.  We sure would like to celebrate her first birthday here at home…