We had a busy weekend. Sarah’s parents traveled from IA and met us over in St. Louis for a long weekend, which included Grant’s Farm, the St. Louis Zoo, and Magic House Children’s Museum. In a year when we are working to conserve money and Ryan’s vacation days from work (in hopeful anticipation of overseas travel next year), it was a wonderful little vacation for us.
So, on Saturday morning, we were busily finishing our last minute packing, with the intention of dropping the dog off when the kennel opened at 8am and getting on the road. Ryan providentially opened the front door “to let in a little of the cool morning air,” he said (which was so refreshing after a week of 95 degrees!!!).
Upon doing so, he found a little slip of paper tucked in our door. It was a form indicating that the postman had tried to deliver a piece of certified mail to us on Friday (at a time when I wasn’t home apparently), which was now being held for us at the post office. I got a little nauseous because I was pretty sure it had something to do with our adoption dossier, which I had sent via certified mail to the KS Secretary of State three days previously. Had I stupidly misaddressed it? Had they not accepted it for some reason? Had they seen some fatal error immediately upon opening it? Have I mentioned how hard I worked on this mailing…it was certified, it was express, it included a self-addressed stamped envelope (also certified and express, and with extra postage thoughtfully added to account for the 19+ sheets the Secretary of State would add to the existing weight of the package). I nearly collapsed in an exhausted heap in front of the postal counter when it was all finished. And since then, I had been feeling such relief at having that thing mailed off exactly as requested. But now, we decided to delay our departure time by 30 minutes so that we could stop at the post office when it opened at 8:30am and retrieve our mail.
Then Ryan, ever the optimist, said, “I think it’s done. I think the Secretary of State did his certifications and is returning our documents to us, ready to go.” I tried to explain that this would be impossible because I had just mailed the stuff on Tuesday. It would have arrived on Wednesday, would have had to have been put back in the mail in Topeka on Thursday at least, so that the mailman here could attempt (unsuccessfully) to deliver it to us on Friday. “And remember, honey, there were 19 documents for him to certify. It took the IA guy about a week to process three documents,” I said.
Dear reader (if you are out there), let me remind you for a moment, whenever we receive the certified documents back from the KS Secretary of State, the whole dossier gets reassembled (by adding the forms that were previously certified by the IA Secretary of State) and sent to our adoption agency, which happens to be located in…just guess where…St. Louis, MO.
So Ryan, still optimistic, decided that we should take along the IA documents for our dossier, just in case the certified documents were awaiting us at the post office (and remember that we’re stopping at the post office on our way out of town…on vacation…spending extended hours in our van over the next several days). That way, we could potentially hand-deliver the completed dossier to our adoption agency during our trip to St. Louis. I, slightly more pessimistic realistic, said that it sounded like a good way to lose, wrinkle, or otherwise damage two perfectly certified IA birth certificates and a marriage license. That said, I rounded up the documents.
We dropped off the dog, filled up with gas, and stopped at the post office right when it opened. When I went in and presented my form, the mailman went into the back and returned with an envelope. I could see that it was the one I had self-addressed and wasn’t sure if that was good news or bad. I didn’t rip it open until I got back in the van, and the first thing I saw was a certification sheet from the office of the KS Secretary of State!! I couldn’t believe it. I pulled out the packet and found all 19 certifications stapled to the original documents (no explanation, no cover letter, no receipt for our payment…no time for that stuff, I guess, if you’re turning packets around in 6 hours).
So, I spent the next 10 miles reassembling our completed dossier, listening to Ryan say, “I told you so,” and leaving a message for our adoption consultant, explaining that we were on our way to St. Louis with a complete dossier in hand. And, then I spent the next 250 miles after that holding the precious stack on my lap, so as to save it from inevitable coffee splashes, flying shoes, and sharp turns.
I can’t even tell you how thankful I was to have Ryan find that postal note in our door before we left for the weekend. Surely it would have blown or washed away in the weekend weather. It may have been who knows how long until we realized that we had paperwork awaiting us at the post office. Thank you God!! And what a treat to be able to visit the adoption agency in person, meet face to face with the people whom we communicate regularly, and hand over our paperwork.
Sarah